You know how pretty much everyone will tell you how rewarding it is to be a mother, or how much of a blessing it is. In which part of them saying any of this did they really tell you the whole truth ? People love to harp on the good stuff but when do they actually tell you the truth about the miracle of life? You spend your whole life day dreaming about being a mom, fantasizing about what it would be like to have your own family. Then once you're there it's nothing like what they described. Those happy family moments are fleeting. They come and go so quick you almost forget what its like to even be happy anymore. Everything that I will say, I have experienced first hand.