WARNING: MENTION OF SUICIDE AND SELF HARM.
Sometimes I think to myself...
"How can they be so happy? Their loved one just died a month ago."
*I thought of that in the shower XD* #showerthoughts
Anyways, I thought of all the possible scenarios on why they would be happy. That's until I started thinking of the other perspective. The departed one.
For me, if I died, I would want people to remember me forever, feel pity for me. But I later on soon realized that I was being selfish. I re-thought and told myself...
"Why would I want to be the reason someone is sad or depressed about me? What if they would harm themselves, both physically and emotionally?"
I finally ended up changing my mind.
"I would want someone to be happy. Live their life, only remembering me when they need to inspire someone else to be happy if their loved one died too. I want someone, when I die, to think of me as an awesome person and smile every time they think of me."
Life will continue on after death. Let it be a happy one.