Stop measuring yourself to the standards of other people. It doesn't matter whether it's a Benz, a BMW or you jump on a bus. She went to her honeymoon at 24, took a photo infront of Buruj al-Arab in Dubai whilst you're 30 and unmarried - and?..He finished school at 19 and you finished at 26,whats the big deal! It's not about salaries, pounds, dollars,and bank balances. It's not about how many children you have and if you live in mansion, or whether you're renting a cramped tiny tent. What does it matter if it is 10 million followers, 1000 or 1 follower on FB, Twitter, Insta and Snapchat. Brown eyes, blue eyes, light skin, dark skin, freckles, spots - and what? She looks better as a cat, dog, or rabbit on those cute selfies on Snapchat - big deal?
Take peace in the fact that GOD doesn't look at your form, your money, your house, your marital status, or the number of your kids. He just looks at your heart. So take care of that.
-Ajibola Oyelola
June 2018