What has been the most difficult thing you've had to forgive?
My mom saying a lot of the really, really hurtful things that she's said to me, and I haven't forgiven her, not all the way. It really sucks when a parent tells you they're tired of being your parent and calls you a range of words that, if I were to include them, the nature setting on this book would have to be turned on.
The second thing (of course there's two because I'm indecisive and they were both bad) would be the time I came out to my closest and most trusted friends and I found out a week later that one of them told her mother (who's a gossipy woman) without telling me first or asking for my permission. I almost had a panic attack and can no longer trust that friend. She's toxic and I wish I could cut her off, but it's really difficult.