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What's a quote your boy told you while you were venting to him?
I vented to my friend about something akin to an argument I had with a friend girl of mine, specifically something she said about trauma. She was telling me that some girls I'm friends with sent another girl I'm friends with to tell me they were uncomfortable with me touching them like I do everyone. I asked her "Then why don't they just come and tell me instead of sending someone like a messenger?"
She told me they might have past trauma from speaking out and something bad happening. I said you can't use trauma as an excuse for everything and she said "It's not an excuse, they're explaining why they can't do something." Took all of my willpower to say "That's what an excuse fucking is." because she did say they might be scared of me being angry.
Now I completely understand some people have trauma, even if it's simple things like getting popped by your parents for talking back. Hell I have something you can call trauma, which should've made me hesitant to tell personal things to people. But here I am, telling my friends and family everything comfortably.
Anyways, my friend told me this:
"Mane bitches be 13 going on 30 and bringing up shit that happened when they was 6."