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@RelaineSan thx, I dont try much, thinking about writing a book about how much I crave to be omnipresent 

          ▪︎Demanding you passwords to everything.
                -this often goes hand in hand with pushing you friends and family away, it creates an unsafe environment. Especially if they take your devices if you wont give them passwords, call 911(if you can) and file a theft of your personal device and change your passwords asap or find a way to go to the hospital and tell the nurses/doctors that your in an abusive situation.
          
          ▪︎disrespect you and/or your ways of life.
                 -if they disrespect your religion, gender, sexuality, race or other things, it probably means they dont really like you and are using you for certain things
          
          ▪︎They guilt trip you
               -this is super manipulative behavior you often dont relize is happening. More often than not they make themselves the victim when you came to them about your issue.
          
          ▪︎they make you feel stupid(unless its dumbification consensually), call you names in arguments,  or make fun of you during sex in an unpleasant way.
               -this is all seen as overall disrespectful and manipulative to make you feel like the bad person and to bring you down.
          
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♤RED FLAGS♤
          
          Some important red flags can be as followed with justification,some red flags can bend the rules based on how both of you veiw the relationship. Just know that everyone has different biology and backgrounds so something's may be ok and others may not
          
          ▪︎ignoring personal space when you ask for it
                - if the person will not give you personal space even after you ask for it is considered obsessive and possessive and can lead to later issues in the relationship and blow up arguments.
          
          ▪︎Rush a relationship way to fast
                - it's one thing if you start dating because of a one night stand or something similar, it's another when they want to get married in 3 months
          
          ▪︎Pushing you away from friends and family
                -if this ever happens you need to get to a safe place immediately. This often is VERY possessive behavior and can lead to later abuse or situations where you cant get help because your so monitored.
          
          2.5/3

♡SAFE WORDS♡
          
          NO MATTER WHAT, SAFE WORDS SHOULD ALWAYS CAUSE BOTH PARTIES TO STOP IMMEDIATELY AND FIX THE ISSUE.
          
          Safe words are words you would use in an unsafe or uncomfortable situation with your lover(s). This can also be used in public if someone else is making them feel unsafe or scared so the other(s) knows to help there lover(s).
          
          This is most often sexual and can be used by both tops and bottems. If a bottem feels:
          • uncomfortable in their restraints, 
          • dosent want to have sex, 
          • is in pain phisically or mentally,
          • gets triggered by something the top may have said (via degrading, praising or a past of abuse, ect)
          • feels that saying the safe word is essential 
          
          They should say the safe word if any of these apply in an unsafe or dangerous way, or even if the sub just can handle it. 
          
          For Doms/Tops there might be a different reason. Doms can also have safe words this usually applies when:
          •Doms feel like they've hurt there bottem to much and can't willingly continue.
          • they feel like they've said something that hurt there lover(s) 
          • feel scared to explore a new kink or similar things 
          • they get triggered from a past experience or other thing
          • feel like it is essential to say the safe word.
          If any of these apply in a dangerous or unsafe way, or even if the dom cant handle it, they should be saying there safe word.
          
          Safe word suggestions are usually food related, basicy and word you would never say during sex, if you like to use gags then it is recommended that you also have a hand signal/ body signal so even when restrained the hands should still eh able to be used for a hand signal, only restrain wrists, not hands.
          
          When ever restraining, make sure to do it in a safe and effective way. Always restrain befor gagging so they can express any pinching or uncomfortable sensations while you set them up.
           2/3

♡READERS♡
          
          I have posted a new chapter on my ink x error book 
          
          This chapter is all about safe relationships, especially BDSM and other Sex orientated relationships. It brings up the topic of safe words and is the aftercare chapter.
          
          ♧AFTERCARE♧
          
           Aftercare is the act of making sure both the top and the bottem are safe and ok after a rough (or light) session. This can include baths, praising, cleaning, a long talk about the likes and dislikes if they explored a new kink, ect anything that makes the other member(s) feel safe to talk about what is needed, and to make them  feel loved.
          
          The reason why it is necessary in a bdsm relationship is because more often than not sessions include, but are no limited to:
          
          • Verbal abuse/degradation,
          • Physical abuse (i.e. whipping, spanking, slapping, choking or any other forms of pain that the person(s) likes)
          •Things that can be uncomfortable, but not uncomfortable enough to say the safe word.
          
          All of course in a consensual way where both top, bottem, and other Involved all agree that it is ok/wanted. If there wasnt aftercare there would be a lot of relationships where bottems or tops alike would feel in pain and/or un-cared for and un-loved by the other person(people) and that can lead to red flags.
          
          1/3

●♡Everyone♡●
          
          I have uploaded soft morning part 2 (smut) on my ink x error book and I just wanted to tell yall cos I know you've been waiting for it
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          Also, I'd like to apologize for such a late chapter, I thought I had posted it on the tommarow I stated in part one, but I guess not, 
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          Again, I am so sorry.
          I'm going to try and have a more common schedule for this book, like maybe once every week or every month or something, thank you so much for the patience and I hope you enjoy the chapter.
          ♧Andrew♧
          
          

Fuck it, 8m bored, new chaper in the next 2 hrs of my ink x error book,I'll try to work more on it

Happy birthday, Sis!
          
          You're another year older! Yay!
          
          Good job for being alive!
          
          You're an amazing person and I love you, sis. I promise, we only need to wait 4 more years then we can finally meet at last. I love you sis. So, so much.
          
          Happy birthday!