HOW TO ESCAPE FRIENDZONE

BUILD YOURSELF

"Why do you build me up (build me up) Buttercup, baby
Just to let me down (let me down) and mess me around
And then worst of all (worst of all) you never call, baby
When you say you will (say you will) but I love you still
I need you (I need you) more than anyone, darlin'
You know that I have from the start
So build me up (build me up) Buttercup, don't break my heart" 🎵🎶
Build me up, buttercup by. The Foundations
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Madalas kantahin ng bestfriend ko to kapag nagvivideoke kame. Kase may second voice. Taga second voice ako eh. He he. . Anyway bakit nga ba napasok yung kantang buttercup? Dahil ito yung first chapter?

Hmmm. . .

Sabi sa kanta ayon sa yahoo answers. Why you build someone's up and then after papaasahin, left him dissapointed. After you build him up then you leave him like a construction worker.
Pagkatapos mong buuin pagkatao bigla mong iiwan. Ouch! Sayang lang din kase mawawasak lang. Kase nakasalalay ka sa isang tao na you feel complete if he or she is beside you. Kaya kapag nawala siya nawawalan ka na ng self-esteem, nadedepress, and out of league.

That's why you should build youself up! Not to anyone! But yourself! Kase kung sa tao ka umaasa eh masasaktan ka talaga. It's time to change! Change for the better.

ACCEPTING AND BE BETTER

Dapat advance tayo mag-isip what will happen if you confess to someone. not all people have the same feelings for you. some people think of you as a friend or even a brother. Kaya dapat ibahin natin pagtingin nila sayo.

Accepting reality is fine. If you want to make any improvement in your life, you must first accept the way it is now. Don't try to judge it and make it wrong. Don't try to glorify it or distort the truth to make it more attractive. Just accept the way things are.

Because the true meaning of being happy is being real to yourself. There is an old Buddhist saying, "There is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way."

DO THIS

Accept what and who you are. but you can also be a better version of yourself. Focus on improving yourself by eating nutritious foods, go to gym, get a proper haircut,go buy some clothes, and travel. you have to love yourself first before loving someone. Why?, dahil hindi ka naman pwede magbigay ng wala ka. Hindi ka pwedeng magmahal kapag hindi mo mahal sarili mo, dahil in the end. Ikaw rin masasaktan.

CHANGE YOU MINDSET

Change your mindset. Pay attention to your mindset. If you're putting yourself down, reverse those thoughts and try focusing on your positive traits. We all have them. What you think about yourself is influencing the results you're getting in every area of life. and lastly be a goal setter! set your goals and make this come true.

Im telling this to you because you can be better. most girls like attracted man with goals and ambition. your building yourself to be a boyfriend material not a friendzone guy.

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For Girls, women and men are so different in terms of LOVE.

Women are more emotional and intellectualise in terms of love. They tend to hurt more eventhough even there are not in been together ever since.

Compare to men? For me. Ang mga babae they tend to listen to there hearts. Kaya maemosyonal sila pagdating sa love.

Sa lalake kase masyadong egoistic. Mas iniisip nila sarili nila kesa sa ibang tao.

Women can grow to love someone they were not initially attracted to, once they get to know the person. Also, since women are very cerebral about things, they are thoughtful about the idea of love, where men can be fast and 'all in' once they have those feelings.

Most of men kase maganda lang ok na kahit panget ugali. Sa babae naman talagang quality check, minsan naghahanap pa ng katulad sa mga k-drama. Kung dito nga sa pilipinas nga hirap ka magkajowa, koreano pa gusto? Vaklang tohh!

FIRST STEP

▶.So for girls like you. First, Build your emotion, control it. Don't fall inlove easily to the person you like. Think first.

Trivia: When you are inlove the neurons in your brain are releasing dopamine, a feel-good hormone and neurotransmitter associated with euphoria (as well as gambling and drug addiction). And because your brain wants you to keep pursuing this feeling, like a little love-carrot, it fires off more dopamine every time you think about the crush.

Nakaka adik si crush! Si pare! Si bogs! Si bes! Kaya gusto mo lagi kayong magkasama. Nababalisa ka pa pag isang araw lang kayong hindi nagkasama. Partida magkaklase kayo.

How to build yourself?

1.Have goals and plans in your life.- hindi lang dapat ganda at puro pagmamahal bes. Dapat may pangarap ka sa buhay. Gusto din naming mga lalake yung parehas kaming may pangarap sa buhay para maganda future natin. Maganda future niyo ni bes.

2.Love yourself- Go dinner alone, read lots of inspirational books, go out with friends, travel, Go shopping, and have some beauty routine. Nasabi ko na to bes. Mga examples lang yan. Gawin mo nalang.

3.new challenges in life.- boring ang buhay kapag walang hamon. Subukan mo sarili mo, it can also helps you to endure pain, sufferings, and stress. Go somewhere na kinakatakutan mo, endure it para pag nareject ka ni bes di masyadong masakit. Charot!

This will help you love more of yourself. If you have full of love to yourself you can also give love to whom you like.

Its like a glass of water. If the glass is full of water you can give to an empty glass.

That's an example of a love.

Buy hey! What is the connection in friendzone to this?

Iam saying this to you so that the person whom you like, likes you back. Men loves beauty and brains. Beauty is only temporary but having a sense of humor and good personality. That is a true beauty. So don't focus only in outside but also inside.