All For You

Go For What Makes you Happy

Lahat naman tayo gustong maging masaya sa buhay. Wala pa naman akong nakikilala na gusto ng miserable life.

Sabi nga, your decisions reflect kung ano yung nagpapasaya sayo. Well I say, not all the time.

Minsan kasi you base your decisions sa mga priorities mo sa buhay and not just for what will make you happy. 

Dapat may balance between your mind and heart. We can't just always follow our heart kasi minsan we're not making sense anymore. And we can't also base all of our decisions sa isip natin kasi we might become as hard as a rock or careless towards the emotions of those we love and love us.

I am not sure of what will be your stand about this, it might be different and you may feel like I don't care about how others feel.

Kaya lang, with my experiences, narealize ko na minsan if we go for what will make us happy without thinking about it first, kadalasan you end up getting hurt. 

And it sucks kapag nasasaktan ka. 

It sucks pag broken hearted ka.

But it sucks even more if hinayaan mo lang yung sarili mo to end up, beaten up kung alam mo naman na on the first place na don din hahantong yon.

We have to make our own decisions every now and then. 

And the decisions we made before, made us of who we are right now. And these decisions will help us to decide better for today and for the future.

At dahil kanya kanya tayo ng priorities, kanya kanya din tayo ng perception whether the decision we made is beneficial or not.

Basta ang alam ko decisions should not be taken for granted. 

And that decisions require analysis and comparison. It is right that we should have our own decisions but sometimes we need others to help us decide.

It might be because they know better or they have already experienced it. Pero sa huli dapat ikaw pa din ang magsasabi ng final decision.

- (28/07/2013)