Okay, to be fair, it wasn't just Arabella. It was like my decision to move years ago also involved me putting a sign over my head that said "Project Your Regrets Onto Me." I tried to remove these people from my life, but at least one would remain, anywhere. The person who would say I was wrong for staying/going, that I should be going/staying, that I couldn't stay/go for the rest of my life, that I should decide to go/stay now before it was too late.
These people just couldn't be happy for someone who was enjoying herself.
And yet I had to remain polite, so when I encountered these people, I went into "no comment" mode, or close to it. I lied.
My jaw was numb from all the lies, by the end of dinner.
Arabella didn't let up the interrogation about my life and future plans, so I just kept saying things to close the topic. But she kept coming back.
They weren't major lies; mostly just me saying "nothing" when there actually was a "something." Except the "something" was going to lead to more questions, so I just didn't say it. The lies weren't going to hurt her, and I convinced myself that she deserved them for being so nosy about my business.
I had a plan, all right? I didn't need to share it with everyone. And the lack of sharing didn't give anyone the right to make one for me.
Maybe I shouldn't have told people I was staying longer this time.
When I started walking back to my building, it was near midnight, and being annoyed at Arabella's questions gave me excess energy. So I went to the gym.
And Ethan was there.
Only the two of us were apparently crazy enough to use the facilities at that hour, but I wasn't complaining. I waved hello but skipped the small talk and went straight for the treadmill.
Maybe a more ambitious run this time. I set it for a course that would simulate a jog up three hills in thirty minutes. And then I started running.
My heart was beating fast and hopefully in a healthy way as I made it up the first "hill," and I felt great. No, not great -- I felt pumped.
Because I might actually have been angry, a little.
What made Arabella think we had that kind of friendship? I was nothing but professional when we worked together, never even talked to her about the guys I liked or the dates I went on. Never asked her for work advice, even; the day she found out I was leaving the company was the day I handed her my resignation letter.
You don't have the right to project your regrets onto me.
I ran on adrenaline for the rest of my workout.
"...want to grab something?" Ethan was saying.
"What?" I was breathless as I neared the end of my run, but I felt wonderful. I could have taken on another hill. I was ready to do stuff. "A drink please? Yes."
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Welcome to Envy Park
ChickLitBack from five years in Singapore, Moira has a new Manila apartment, but no career, no social life, and no boyfriend. Does she need those if she's planning to fly off to another country by next year anyway? (This is the first 9 chapters of my new ch...