'is this benefiting me and my higherself?' It wasn't. Step 1: identifying. Q: what was she doing or going to do? A: Not focus on my degree and back on my toxic ex and whatever he needed Step 2: Recollection/ Call to action. Q: How can we take the situation and make it about bettering you in someway? A: Putting Mila stuff down for a second and calling my school back. Nodding semi hard because Devin liked that idea a whole bunch "see I gotta keep it real with the realest person I know.. Accountability baby accountability" she chanted to herself switching back to her call log and pressing on her advisor name 'That degree' Is twenty five still too young?