Why is it that when a guy likes me he gets his friend to tell me?

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"Avoidance of denial. He may have a history of being turned down or consider it likely that you would. By having a friend let you know and gauging the reaction, he gets to give himself space from the potential let-down. Granted, this can be rather self-fulfilling as many women being approached by someone else other than the actual person of interest, will hardly be moved to express their own interest. Still, we all do a great many things to avoid being hurt."

"Generally he is too shy and doesn't have the strength to tell you himself. He is uncertain about how you feel about him and can't face you and tell you himself for fear of your reaction and possible rejection."

"Please don't hold his insecurity or lack of courage against him. He obviously really likes you if he is so nervous to tell you. You either really like him back or you don't and while it is a little immature the important thing to realize is that he is over the moon for you."

"For some guys they don't like to be embarrassed so they send in a friend, they have a fear of rejection or maybe think you are out of their league."

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